{"id":4453,"date":"2026-07-30T10:18:01","date_gmt":"2026-07-30T08:18:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gregoryderville.com\/?p=4453"},"modified":"2026-07-30T11:30:56","modified_gmt":"2026-07-30T09:30:56","slug":"nick-cave-are-you-the-one-that-ive-been-waiting-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gregoryderville.com\/index.php\/2026\/07\/30\/nick-cave-are-you-the-one-that-ive-been-waiting-for\/","title":{"rendered":"Nick Cave &#8211; \u00ab\u00a0Are you the one that I&rsquo;ve been waiting for ?\u00a0\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1 wp-block-paragraph\">J&rsquo;ai \u00e9crit pas mal de chroniques sur l&rsquo;amour qui s&rsquo;en est all\u00e9, mais j&rsquo;aime beaucoup plus les chansons sur l&rsquo;amour qui revient. Ici il s&rsquo;agit plut\u00f4t de l&rsquo;amour que l&rsquo;on esp\u00e8re et que l&rsquo;on imagine dans le secret de notre coeur, que l&rsquo;on attend et que l&rsquo;on guette avec f\u00e9brilit\u00e9, \u00e0 qui on a envie de sourire et de souhaiter la bienvenue quand il semble poindre le bout de son nez, que l&rsquo;on ch\u00e9rit comme notre tr\u00e9sor le plus pr\u00e9cieux quand il est enfin l\u00e0, et \u00e0 qui on consacre alors toute la douceur et toute la pers\u00e9v\u00e9rance dont on est capable, envers et contre tout, parce qu&rsquo;il est hors de question de laisser filer le ou la one and only que la vie a mis sur notre chemin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2 wp-block-paragraph\">La chanson n&rsquo;est pas forc\u00e9ment aussi romantique qu&rsquo;il y para\u00eet au premier abord. C&rsquo;est d&rsquo;abord une m\u00e9ditation froide et lucide sur les \u00e9checs sentimentaux cuisants que Nick Cave a v\u00e9cus, une reconnaissance que l&rsquo;amour romantique et passionnel, celui qui emporte et transporte, celui dans lequel on se consume avec fi\u00e8vre, n&rsquo;est finalement qu&rsquo;une extase \u00e9ph\u00e9m\u00e8re, et donc illusoire si on esp\u00e8re le prolonger tel quel. Comment pourrait-on faire durer un coup de foudre ? \u00ab\u00a0<em>Stars have their moment, then they die<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3 wp-block-paragraph\">Mais en formulant cette confession sur l&rsquo;\u00e9chec de ses relations pass\u00e9es, Nick Cave dessine aussi, en creux, ce que pourrait \u00eatre un amour plus v\u00e9ritable, \u00e0 la fois plus paisible, plus tendre et plus durable, et peut-\u00eatre aussi plus sinc\u00e8re, en tous cas moins illusionn\u00e9. Un amour sans doute moins intense et volcanique, mais qui au lieu de br\u00fbler bri\u00e8vement, r\u00e9chauffe de fa\u00e7on lente, douce et profonde, et qui se m\u00e9tamorphose petit \u00e0 petit en <a href=\"https:\/\/gregoryderville.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/10\/tolstoi-le-bonheur-conjugal\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/gregoryderville.com\/index.php\/2026\/04\/10\/tolstoi-le-bonheur-conjugal\/\">bonheur conjugal<\/a> &#8211; le bonheur quotidien des moments de rien pendant lesquels la pr\u00e9sence de l\u2019autre \u00e0 nos c\u00f4t\u00e9s se suffit \u00e0 elle-m\u00eame. Une main effleurant un avant-bras qui tourne une cuill\u00e8re en bois dans la b\u00e9chamel : what else?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4 wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab\u00a0<em>Are you the one that I&rsquo;ve been waiting for ?<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb , c&rsquo;est aussi l&rsquo;une des questions les plus d\u00e9licieusement troublantes qui soit. Est-ce que tu es celle que j&rsquo;attendais ? Est-ce que c&rsquo;est toi qui va changer ma vie ? Est-ce toi ? Je br\u00fble de pouvoir poser \u00e0 nouveau cette question \u00e0 la femme que j&rsquo;aime, les yeux dans les yeux et les paumes pos\u00e9es sur ses joues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5 wp-block-paragraph\">C&rsquo;est en tous cas en pensant \u00e0 ce type d&rsquo;amour que je me sens tr\u00e8s \u00e9mu par la phrase titre de cette chanson, qui cl\u00f4ture chaque couplet. C&rsquo;est l&rsquo;une des plus belles d\u00e9clarations d&rsquo;amour que je connaisse, et c&rsquo;est celle que n&rsquo;importe qui, je crois, r\u00eaverait d&rsquo;avoir entendu au moins une fois dans sa vie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6 wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7 wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ab\u00a0I&rsquo;ve felt you coming girl, as you drew near<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8 wp-block-paragraph\">I knew you&rsquo;d find me, cause I longed you here<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-9 wp-block-paragraph\">Are you my destiny ? 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